
Her Refuge
Healing Doesn’t Happen in Silence.
It Happens in Safe Circles.
Her Refuge helps women heal from abortion trauma and understand the hidden reality of abortion coercion by creating safe conversations in churches, communities, and prison outreach programs.


OUR MISSION
Her Refuge exists to break the silence surrounding abortion trauma and coercion. Many people carry confusion, grief, or unanswered questions for years because they never felt safe enough to talk about their experiences.






Through storytelling, education, and compassionate outreach, HER REFUGE works to create environments where healing conversations can begin..
What We Do
Her Refuge focuses on five areas of impact:






Education about abortion coercion


Church training and awareness
Abortion Recovery Retreat
Prison Recovery Retreat
You’re Invited to Join the Mission
If you believe people deserve safe places to process difficult experiences, we invite you to join the mission.
This work began with one simple belief: no one should have to carry their pain alone.
Every day, women and men are searching for understanding, healing, and a place where their story can be heard without judgment.
By joining this mission, you are helping create that place.
Together we are offering compassion, resources, and safe communities for those seeking healing after abortion.
Whether you choose to support, learn, pray, or walk alongside others, you are helping bring light into places that have been silent for far too long.

Invite Sherie to Speak
Sherie Marie speaks about abortion, abortion coercion, the cost of silence, and how compassionate conversations can create opportunities for healing.




When "Choice" Isn't Really a Choice
Understanding the hidden pressure behind many abortion stories.
POPULAR SPEAKING TOPICS
COMMON QUESTIONS
What can we expect when you speak? You can expect a safe, compassionate, and spirit-led environment. I share my story with honesty and hope, while creating space for reflection, healing, and connection. My goal is not just awareness but transformation.
The Cost of Silence
Many people carry abortion experiences for years without ever speaking about them.
Compassionate Church Response
Helping churches understand how to support individuals carrying abortion trauma.
Healing after Coercion
A message of hope for those seeking restoration and peace.
Her presentations combine personal story, educational insight, and practical guidance for communities that want to respond with compassion.
How long do you typically speak? I offer flexible formats, including short testimonies (20-30 minutes), full sessions (45-60 minutes), workshops, and multi-session events, depending on your needs.
How to book Sherie? Simply click the "Request to Book" button and complete the inquiry form. I will follow up to discuss your event, vision, and how I can best serve your audience.
Do you travel? Yes, I am available to travel. Travel details and accommodations can be discussed during the booking process.
Is there a speaking fee? My heart is ministry first. Speaking fees and honorarioums vary depending on the event, location, and needs. I am happy to discuss opinions and work with your organization when possible.
How do you handle sensitive topics like abortion in a church setting? With great care, compassion, and confidentiality. I approach this topic in a way that is non-condemning, trauma-informed, and grounded in grace and truth.
Do you offer abortion recovery resources or follow-up support? Yes. I provide guidance on abortion recovery support and can help connect individuals or churches to resources, next steps, and ongoing care when appropriate.
As a Regional Coordinator for Silent No More in the North Texas Metroplex, I have a direct connection to resources and opportunities for individuals to give their testimonies.
Who is your message for? My message is for women impacted by abortion, church leaders, ministry teams, and anyone who desires to better understand and support those on a healing journey. While my story is faith-based, all are welcome.
About Sherie Marie
Sherie Marie is an author, speaker, and founder of HER REFUGE.
After discovering years later that her own abortion experience involved pressure and deception she did not fully understand at the time, Sherie began speaking publicly about abortion coercion and the hidden silence surrounding many abortion stories.
Her work focuses on helping people understand the complexity behind abortion experiences while creating compassionate environments where healing can take place.
Through speaking engagements, her upcoming memoir, and ministry initiatives, Sherie is working to bring healing conversations into churches, communities, and prison outreach programs.


ABOUT AUTHOR
Recovery Questions
Who can sign up for recovery?
Anyone impacted by abortion, whether woman or man, is welcome here.
Note: Men's recovery is held separately from women's and co-led by my husband.
Is support confidential?
Yes, all conversations and participation are held in strict confidence to ensure safety.
How do I attend an abortion recovery retreat?
Reach out via our contact page to connect with a caring guide for your first step. Fill out our intake form.
Do you offer abortion recovery resources or follow-up support?
Yes. I provide guidance on abortion recovery support and can help connect individuals or churches to resources, next steps, and ongoing care when appropriate.
As a Regional Coordinator for Silent No More in the North Texas Metroplex, I have a direct connection to resources and opportunities for individuals to give their testimonies.
Can I pre-order memoir?
Absolutely, pre-orders for memoir are available through this website, and orders after pre-order will be available on AMAZON.